“Where did the star lead them?”
This question was asked four years ago during our Epiphany Sunday service. A young voice from the back of the room yelled out what we were all thinking. “Bethlehem!” he exclaimed as a chuckle when through the congregation. “Actually,” the pastor responded, “Jerusalem. The star led them first to Jerusalem where they spoke with Herod.” (check it out at Matthew 2:2).
I’d never considered this part of the story before.
You might say, I had an epiphany.
And I’ve shared this exact story for the last four years at Epiphany because each year, I need the reminder as God shines His Star in my life.
You see, the wise men saw an unusual star rise in the East and felt it had enough significance to warrant a costly and timely journey towards its location. We naturally skip to the end of the story, but in doing so we miss a significant middle portion.
The first place the star led them was not the Messiah.
As a matter of fact, it led them to a corrupt king, intent on securing his reign and filled with evil intention. But this corrupt king was actually the one who pointed the wise man towards Bethlehem, back towards the rising star and ultimately towards Messiah, Jesus, King of Kings and Lord of Lords.
God didn’t have to add this little bump in the road. He could have just led them directly to a stable in a little town in Judea. But for whatever reason, God sent them on this little detour first.
Ever had a detour?
Ever been following God’s calling on your life or implementing a plan you really felt His leading in and.. bump… oops… how did we end up here?
Has your “star” taken you to a place that is definitely not what you were looking for?
We usually label these bumps and detours as “failures.” And sometimes, when that happens, we stop the journey. We assume we heard wrong, said wrong, and did wrong. We make the U-turn back to where we started and we analyze how it was we could have been detoured so badly.
But what if it wasn’t a mistake?
I can’t help but wonder what would have happened if the wise men arrived at Herod’s palace and said, “This?!? This is what we came for?” and then turned around and headed home.
But they didn’t. They said, “We are following a star. We believe a great king has come. We aren’t leaving until we get some answers.”
And their persistence paid off. They were given direction and insight from those who understood the situation better than they did and they saw that star rise again and lead them straight into Emmanuel’s dwelling.
If you find yourself detoured and landing in a place you didn’t anticipate as you lead your ministry, your home or your own life, don’t be so quick to say, “I must not have heard God right.” Instead, try these three wise moves like our magi did.
Accept where you are, but don’t assume you are staying
When we end up somewhere unexpected, it is tempting to assume we’ve reached the end of our journey and that assumption can lead to a place of resignation. Maybe you’ve tried integrating a service, but families are complaining that it is not meeting their needs. Perhaps you’ve tried initiating faith talks with your family, but you are the only one that ends up talking. Or maybe you’ve started a course of study and your grades aren’t what you had expected or hoped.
Those detours can appear more like periods than commas on your journey. But what if you…
Pause long enough to take in your surroundings
The voice of failure can be loud, but the quiet voice of the Lord can be overwhelming. Be still enough to know that He is God. Then, listen to the other voices. Ask what needs your families don’t feel are being met, inquire of your family why they don’t feel comfortable participating in faith talks, or consult your fellow students or professors about where you could improve academically.
Often God clarifies His leading in our lives through the people He puts in our path, even the detours.
Let God restore your vision
At some point, after talking to Herod and the scribes and staying for a time in the palace, the wise men had to once again turn their eyes to the sky and lo, and behold, when they did “the star they had seen when it rose went ahead of them.” God resumed the journey, this time with deeper understanding and clarity and this time to the final destination.
Maybe your intergenerational service will take on some new characteristics or your family faith talks might play out differently than you assumed or your academic expectations may need adjusted, but when we follow God’s leading and lift our eyes to Him, He will lead us right into His presence.
A speaker I once heard (Pastor John Stumbo, President of Christian & Missionary Alliance Church) said, “Where you see a period, God sees a comma; He’s not done writing your story yet.” If you find yourself detoured and wondering how you ended up there, assume it’s a comma and learn from the moment. He’s not done writing your story yet either.
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About this Blog
Refocus Ministry was started by Christina Embree, wife to Pastor Luke, mom to three wonderful kids, and family minister at Nicholasville UMC. She is passionate about seeing churches partnering with families to encourage faith formation at home and equipping parents to disciple their kids in the faith. She recently graduated with a Masters of Arts in Ministry focusing on Family, Youth and Children’s Ministry at Wesley Seminary, she also blogs at www.refocusministry.org and is a contributing blogger at D6 Family and Seedbed